3 core skills for avoiding problem people

There seem to be just a few key differences between individuals who are good at spotting and avoiding destructive and problematic people, and those who repeatedly get zapped: Competent people-evaluators notice how they feel around others, and get closer or … Continue reading

4 ways to bring out the best in any lover

One of the tricks to finding great lovers is bringing out the best in other people. Bring out people’s kind and generous side, and you get to be around kind, generous people. Bring out a person’s red-hot inner lover, and … Continue reading

How to pick great lovers

“MrCunningLinguist” asked: How do women select great lovers aka whats the criteria? What are the secrets of selecting a great lover? As a woman, I have always had far more positive sexual experiences than negative ones. Now that I have … Continue reading

How to avoid problem people

Originally posted to a members-only website, this post got over 180 comments (mostly positive), over 100 likes, and many requests to post it publicly where readers can refer their friends and family. So here it is. This page always contains … Continue reading